Perfect Wedding Planning

Let's face it; once the excitement of the engagement is over and the reality of wedding planning hits you, it all looks pretty unmanageable. That is not to say that the next few years or months are all going to be an uphill struggle, but the reality is that wedding planning is hard work. Working with so many brides over the years has provided lots of insight into how one can make the wedding planning experience run more smoothly for you.

Firstly, it's important to get the big jobs done first. As couples are booking weddings earlier and earlier in advance, to ensure you get your desired location and venue, you need to book early. Your choice of venue, location and time of year will then help you decide on a wedding theme. Once this is all booked and a deposit paid, you can then relax a little because the most important job is done. Some brides book reception venues a couple of years in advance and then don't go on to make any further plans until 6 months later.

Next, it would be worth giving some thought to your wedding stationery and your guest list. You may wish to send Save the Date cards if your event is going to be in the summer as this may be when families with young children have already booked holidays.

Rule number three - this is all about planning your wedding and enjoying yourself at the same time! And yes, that really is possible. Start by getting yourself a book or folder - this can go with you everywhere and will be the best place to store phone numbers, bridal inspirations, etc. Then, you must consider which items are immediate [e.g. things that need to be prepared in advance, such as booking the evening entertainment]. Next, you must draw up a 12 month schedule and insert each job into a month. Of course, the more immediate actions will need to be addressed in the first few months, whereas ordering wedding favours may wait until later on if you wish, although many brides to buy their favours well in advance. Some people find organising such a big event too difficult and if this sounds like you, why don't you ask for a bit of help? There are loads of reasonably priced wedding planners out there who can help you with aspects of your wedding or arrange the complete day for you. You need to weigh up the cost between spending out on a planner and how much you can physically cope with by yourself. Alternatively, family and friends may be able to offer you help in some areas.

In conclusion, if you have booked your reception venue AND organised your wedding stationery - well done! If you have been enjoying yourself along the way, that's even better! It's now time to celebrate with your partner as you have your first [of many!] glasses of champagne and congratulate yourselves on taking the first few steps on your way to perfect wedding planning!

An original article written by the team at Chloe Beck.
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